Articles en-us http://www.divorceloft.com N/A http://www.divorceloft.com jcreyna@ipsychotherapist.com 20 http://www.divorceloft.com/articles/7/1/The-Beauty-of-Single-Parenting-Every-Cloud-DOES-have-a-Silver-Lining/Page1.html I miss being married. I miss the things we used to do. I wish our ifferences didn't bring us to divorce... BUT they did so.... I have to do my best to deal with the cards I have been dealt. I do this by focusing on the good in my life now, cherishing the time I spend with my son, living my life to the fullest, and making my own rules. noemail@ipsychotherapist.com (Cathi Adams) Tue, 21 Nov 2006 00:00:00 -0700 http://www.divorceloft.com/articles/6/1/How-to-Become-Happily-Divorced/Page1.html Many people think you can’t possibly be happy if you are alone. Loneliness is a choice. I am often alone but I am rarely lonely. Many of my clients say that they felt much lonelier when they were in a bad marriage then when they divorced. You can choose to make lemonade out of lemons. noemail@ipsychotherapist.com (Cathi Adams) Tue, 21 Nov 2006 00:00:00 -0700 http://www.divorceloft.com/articles/5/1/Making-the-Decision-to-Divorce-Why-Planning-and-Preparation-are-Essential-to-Your-Financial-Future/Page1.html I find it interesting that women plan for earthquakes and floods,fire and medical emergencies, spending thousands of dollars to insure themselves against catastrophic events that have low odds of ever occurring, yet they fail to plan for the highly possibleevent of divorce. noemail@ipsychotherapist.com (Cathi Adams) Tue, 21 Nov 2006 00:00:00 -0700 http://www.divorceloft.com/articles/4/1/Rebuilding-Your-Marriage-with-Trust/Page1.html No marriage can survive without the foundation of trust.  This simple truth is so fundamental and basic to a healthy marriage that few of us stop to think about it.  Without a profound respect and faith in each others actions and thoughts, a marriage can not progress and grow.  The same is true with a personal relationship.  A committed relationship, a loving marriage where two people learn to love and grow with each other, can never blossom without the fundamental prerequisite of trust between both partners.  noemail@ipsychotherapist.com (Emanuel Fox) Tue, 14 Nov 2006 00:00:00 -0700 http://www.divorceloft.com/articles/3/1/Rebuilding-Your-Marriage-with-Love/Page1.html There are a multitude of ways a person can say “I love you.”  You say it when you give them a big hug and kiss when you greet them at the end of the day.  You say it when you leave a little note for them emblazoned with a heart and with both of your names inscribed inside it.  You say it when you look each other in the eye with a loving gaze and contemplate bliss and warmth together.  You say it just about anytime you do something thoughtful for your spouse that truly means “I love you. noemail@ipsychotherapist.com (Emanuel Fox) Mon, 13 Nov 2006 00:00:00 -0700 http://www.divorceloft.com/articles/2/1/Rebuilding-Your-Marriage-with-Commitment/Page1.html Commitment is the foundation of a healthy relationship.  Both partners, committed to the general health and well being of the other, is what it is all about.  Commitment is something that must be renewed on a daily or weekly basis.  Because life throws curve balls at every one of us, it is important to renew your commitment to your spouse.  It is important to keep the channels flowing. noemail@ipsychotherapist.com (Emanuel Fox) Mon, 13 Nov 2006 00:00:00 -0700 http://www.divorceloft.com/articles/1/1/Growing-up-Wounds-and-Traumas-that-happened-to-you-that-will-draw-unhealthy-relationships-to-yourself/Page1.html Relationships are like physical magnets. That is why you find that most people who enter into a relationship are alike. This also applies to children who have been abused during their childhood. They somehow attract other adults who have had similar experience. noemail@ipsychotherapist.com (Cucan Pemo) Sun, 12 Nov 2006 00:00:00 -0700