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I miss being married. I miss the things we used to do. I wish our ifferences didn't bring us to divorce... BUT they did so.... I have to do my best to deal with the cards I have been dealt. I do this by focusing on the good in my life now, cherishing the time I spend with my son, living my life to the fullest, and making my own rules.
Many people think you can’t possibly be happy if you are alone. Loneliness is a choice. I am often alone but I am rarely lonely. Many of my clients say that they felt much lonelier when they were in a bad marriage then when they divorced. You can choose to make lemonade out of lemons.
I find it interesting that women plan for earthquakes and floods,fire and medical emergencies, spending thousands of dollars to insure themselves against catastrophic events that have low odds of ever occurring, yet they fail to plan for the highly possible event of divorce.